You don’t need to tell me you’re “a writer.”
I can tell by your browser tabs.
One is a notes app full of titles you love more than the pieces themselves. Another is a half-finished draft you haven’t opened in weeks.
Stop all that.
Becoming a writer is surprisingly easy.
Let me show you.
Become fearless
The audience in your head is not your friend. It watches every sentence and asks, Will this impress? Will this make me look smart? Will they clap?
That’s why your drafts feel sterile. You don’t lack skill. You lack the courage to ignore that inner voice.
Learn to write without witnesses. Just write. Twenty minutes. Today. Timer on. When you hear the inner voice telling you to change it cause it’s dumb, don’t obey it.
Say the unpretty sentence
You will try to make what you mean acceptable. You will glaze it with metaphors. You will crack jokes right where the nerve is.
Irony is the most popular sedative in modern writing.
The problem is that the reader feels the distance.
They might like your style, but they won’t trust you.
So do the plain sentence test.
Write one sentence in simple language that says what you actually mean. Make it so direct it tightens your throat a little.
Style can come later. First, you have to stop hiding behind the raw text that is in you.
Stop hovering above your work
There are phrases that exist to keep you out of your own writing.
“It seems…”
“One could argue…”
“In today’s world…”
“People feel…”
It kills your text. Living text has fingerprints.
Replace “people” with someone specific.
Replace “in society” with a place you’ve been.
Replace “it seems” with I noticed or I did.
Finish.
Perfectionism is not high standards.
Perfectionism is a prison.
As long as the piece isn’t finished, you can still believe it would have been brilliant. You get to stay married to potential. And that is intoxicating.
But nobody reads potential. You don’t become a writer in potential.
So define “done” in a way that forces completion this week.
Done might be:
900 words with an ending.
One scene revised once.
One essay titled, punctuated, and saved as a PDF.
One piece sent to one person.
Notice what is missing: “perfect.” Perfect is the drug dealer. Done is the adult.
And here’s a tactic that feels almost stupid until it works: stop each session mid-sentence. Leave a thread hanging. Tomorrow you don’t face a blank wall, you step back into motion.
Writers don’t rely on inspiration. They rely on continuity.
Become a writer for real
You keep waiting for the day you “become a writer.”
That day doesn’t exist. There is no upgrade. There is only the week you produce pages and the week you rehearse.
So here’s your seven-day loop.
Day 1: See. Object inventory. 200 words grounded in physical fact.
Day 2: Say. Plain sentence. 400 words that earn it.
Day 3: Stand. Replace hedges. Put bodies in rooms. Make one observation and own it.
Day 4: Move. Read aloud. Cut the showing-off line. Adjust tempo.
Day 5: Shape. Choose an ending. Not the pretty one. The true one.
Day 6: Finish. Title it. Final period. Save it. Send it or file it.
Day 7: Repeat. New object. New stake. Start ugly again.
That’s the whole secret.
You can keep “being a writer” in your head forever.
Or you can do the ordinary, dangerous thing. This week. With your actual life. With the laundry pile and the boring emails and the same flawed mind you already have.
If you want more than vibes, you need repetition. If you want living text, you need practices that kill the addiction to validation.
And if you felt uncomfortably seen while reading this, good. That’s contact. Now you can begin writing.
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Your move.